Unusual perimenopause symptoms: what to know

Itchy ears, a burning tongue or tingling can happen during perimenopause, but they can also have other causes. The “34 symptoms of perimenopause” is a popular online list, not a medical checklist. Understanding the symptoms can help you describe what you feel and know when to seek care. Menopause Decoded offers lessons and practical guidance for this transition.

Get my plan
4.7
1M+
Downloads
7,000+
User reviews

What are the 34 symptoms of perimenopause?

Lists of 34 symptoms of perimenopause group together common symptoms, less familiar sensations and longer-term health changes. These six groups make them easier to follow. The list cannot tell you whether a symptom is caused by perimenopause.

  1. Cycle, heat and sleep.Irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, disrupted sleep and fatigue.
  2. Mood and mind.Mood swings, irritability, anxiety, panic attacks, low mood, trouble concentrating, memory lapses and a lower sex drive.
  3. Nerves and head.Electric shock sensations, tingling in the hands and feet, a burning mouth, dizziness and headaches. These symptoms can have other causes and may need assessment.
  4. Skin, hair and dryness.Itchy skin, thinning hair, brittle nails, vaginal dryness, gum problems and a change in body odor.
  5. Gut and weight.Bloating, digestive trouble, weight gain around the belly and new or stronger allergies. These changes are not specific to perimenopause.
  6. Joints, bones, bladder and heart.Joint pain, muscle tension, breast pain, bladder leaks, bone loss and an irregular heartbeat. An irregular heartbeat needs a doctor’s check before you put it down to perimenopause.

Symptoms alone cannot confirm the cause. To understand the transition itself, start with our guide to what perimenopause is.

Itchy ears, tinnitus, a burning tongue: the ear and mouth symptoms

Itchy ears, tinnitus, a burning tongue and a metallic taste are sometimes reported around menopause. They can also have causes unrelated to hormones. If they persist or bother you, ask a doctor or dentist for advice.

Three myths about unusual perimenopause symptoms

Unfamiliar symptoms are easy to misunderstand. These are three common misconceptions.

01Myth: 34 is a medical list.
It’s a popular count. Nobody diagnoses perimenopause by ticking 34 boxes, and many women have symptoms the count leaves out, like itchy ears or dry eyes.
02Myth: if it’s strange, it’s in your head.
A symptom deserves attention even if it is hard to describe. Write down what you feel and ask for medical advice if it persists.
03Myth: it’s perimenopause, so there’s nothing to do.
Simple changes may ease mild discomfort. Persistent or troublesome symptoms deserve medical advice; you do not have to put up with them.

Can perimenopause cause nausea, hair loss or electric shocks?

Nausea, hair loss and electric shock sensations are reported during perimenopause, as are tingling and dry eyes. That does not mean hormones explain every case. The advice depends on the symptom and how it changes.

Note when symptoms happen and what makes them better or worse. Persistent or worsening symptoms deserve medical advice, even if they began during perimenopause.

Take the quiz

What you can try at home and when to seek care

Mild symptoms to monitor

Itchy ears with no pain or discharge
Ringing in both ears that comes and goes
A metallic taste with no sores in your mouth
Tingling that comes and goes, with full strength

Signs that need medical advice

Ear pain, discharge or reduced hearing; sudden hearing loss needs urgent care
Ringing in one ear; seek urgent advice for a sound in time with your pulse
A racing, pounding or irregular heartbeat; for chest pain or fainting, get help right away
Persistent or spreading numbness; sudden numbness or weakness needs urgent care

Hormonal changes can affect more than your menstrual cycle.

Why weird perimenopause symptoms happen

Hormonal changes, sleep and stress can all affect how you feel. They do not explain every new symptom.

Estrogen affects several parts of the body

Estrogen helps regulate more than periods, including body temperature and the health of skin and vaginal tissue. Changing levels can affect these functions.

Dryness can cause discomfort

Dry skin, eyes or mouth can feel itchy or irritated. Hormonal changes may contribute, but persistent dryness can have other causes too.

Changes in sensation need context

Tingling and brief jolts are sometimes reported during the transition. A doctor can help assess them, especially if they are new, persistent or getting worse.

Poor sleep and stress can make symptoms harder to manage

When you are tired or stressed, discomfort can be harder to cope with. Rest and relaxation may help, alongside care for any underlying condition.

Choose a practical place to start

The quiz asks about your everyday wellbeing and intimacy so your plan can reflect what matters to you.

Build my plan

Why strange perimenopause symptoms differ from woman to woman

Hormone levels and symptoms change differently for each woman. Even at the same age, your experience may differ from someone else’s. Several factors can contribute.

Start with a manageable change, such as a steadier bedtime or asking for help. Difficult symptoms are not a failure to look after yourself.

What to do when a new symptom turns up

Keep a clear record of a new symptom and check whether it needs medical attention.

The standard symptom scales are explained in our guide to perimenopause quizzes.

What women reported after four weeks with The Coach

From a survey of The Coach users who finished their first four weeks:

58%
Felt more connected to their bodies
55%
Said sex became much more satisfying
39%
Reported a higher libido
41%
Had stronger, more frequent orgasms

Learn about unusual perimenopause symptoms with Menopause Decoded

Menopause Decoded in The Coach for Her explains common and less familiar symptoms, why experiences differ and when to seek medical advice. Lessons cover sleep, mood, food, movement and intimacy, with practical exercises to help you apply what you learn.

You can work through the lessons at your own pace and use your notes to prepare for a medical appointment.

See my plan

What women say about getting to know their bodies

Reviews from The Coach users, quoted as written.

“I was not expecting such a complete app. There’s so much helpful information, practical tips, and exercises. I also love that it’s focused not just on sex, but on women’s health as a whole. I’m really excited to dive deeper into everything the app has to offer.”

carolbsouza2

“I recently started using The Coach (for her) and am so pleased so far. The information included is educational and also so fun. I love that the lessons are broken down into small lessons making it easy to learn in whatever time you have, whether that be minutes or hours.”

Mel_Malone

“I love this app because it has useful, science-backed information presented in an interesting way. No stigma, no shame - just a lot of useful information and exercises. Highly recommend”

shonna b

“Very approachable. I hadn't ever used an app like this but I feel like it has given me perspective about my own body and has enhanced intimacy. Educational and engaging, I am enjoying it.”

Kendall

Read all reviews

The specialists we built this program with

Clinical researchers, certified sex therapists and medical professionals, among them an OB-GYN and a sleep medicine specialist.

Dr. Jessica Yih

Urologist and director of women's sexual health and male infertility at UCI.

Dr. Kirti S. Patel

Board-certified ob/gyn and host of The Gynarchy, a women's-health podcast.

Dr. Justin Lehmiller

PhD in social psychology and senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute.

Dr. Paula Hall

Accredited sexual and relationship psychotherapist, registered with leading professional bodies in psychotherapy.

Natalie Goldberg

Certified sex and family therapist dedicated to improving intimate relationships and personal well-being.

Dr. Gary Shlifer

DO, board-certified internal medicine physician specializing in preventative care, nutrition, and anti-aging.

Dr. Joshua Roland

MD, sleep medicine specialist, and clinical instructor at the David Geffen School of Medicine, UCLA.

Rick Brennan

Certified personal trainer, strength coach, sports nutritionist, and professional WFF athlete.

Questions about unusual perimenopause symptoms

Can perimenopause cause itchy skin?

Yes. Skin can become drier and itchier during perimenopause. Gentle, unscented skin care and cooler showers may help. If you have a rash, broken skin or itching that keeps you awake, see a doctor rather than assuming it is hormonal.

Is frozen shoulder a menopause symptom?

Frozen shoulder causes pain and stiffness and is more common in middle age. Its relationship with menopause is still being studied. If shoulder pain or stiffness limits your movement, seek advice from a doctor or physical therapist.

How long do weird perimenopause symptoms last?

There is no fixed timeline. Some symptoms come and go, while others last longer. Dryness can continue after menopause. Keeping notes helps you see changes over time, but persistent or worsening symptoms need medical advice.

Can I have perimenopause symptoms and still have regular periods?

Yes. Hormones can start to shift while your cycle still looks normal, and sleep, energy or mood often change before your periods do. Irregular periods usually come later in the transition.

What do I get in the app?

Menopause Decoded is a program in The Coach for Her. It includes lessons on hormonal changes, sleep, mood, concentration, nutrition, exercise and intimacy. Practical exercises include a 21-item symptom questionnaire, a ten-minute concentration exercise and questions to prepare for a medical appointment.

Do I need anything besides my phone?

No tests, devices or partner. Some support ideas use things you may already have at home, like a fan or a humidifier.

Is my data private?

Our Privacy Policy explains what data we collect, how we use it and when it may be shared. Review it before entering sensitive information, and contact support if you have questions about your data.

How do I get in touch?

Email support@the.coach for help from our support team, usually within a day. You can also open the Today tab in the app, tap your profile and choose Support.

More programs from The Coach

Sex is a Skill

Know your body. Come first.

See the program

Path to Desire

Low desire isn't permanent. Bring it back in five weeks.

See the program

Art of Attraction

Attraction is energy, not looks.

See the program

Woman’s Guide to Sexting

Desire in your own words, one text at a time.

See the program

Get support for everyday life during perimenopause

Answer a few questions about your wellbeing and intimacy to get a personal plan in Menopause Decoded.

Start my program