Four programs grounded in real science, so you can last longer, perform better, and feel closer to her.
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Most men were never taught how female pleasure works. This program fixes that. You’ll learn her anatomy, how arousal builds stage by stage, and the techniques that matter: reading her body, building tension, and guiding her all the way to orgasm.
A step-by-step program for real arousal control. No distraction tricks. You train the actual mechanics: Kegels, breathwork, and reading your own arousal before it peaks. By week eight you can stay in control as long as you want, with any partner, without breaking the moment.
Erections come down to blood flow, stress, and pelvic floor health. All three are trainable. This program is a practical, science-based way to get hard and stay hard. No pills, no performance anxiety, no waiting for the perfect mood.
Sexual performance doesn’t happen in isolation. This program works on the foundations behind it: sleep, stress, testosterone, and cardiovascular health. Small daily changes here add up to a big difference in bed.
Not the “think about football” kind of control. You’ll learn to read your own body, manage stimulation, and stay in command at any level of arousal, with any partner.
Most couples never talk about sex directly, and that silence creates distance. You’ll learn to say what you want out loud, read what her body is telling you, and let each time make the next one better.
Erection quality, stamina, and energy aren’t traits you’re born with. They’re skills you train. The Coach gives you the tools to be consistent, instead of crossing your fingers and hoping tonight goes well.
Not louder, not more aggressive. Grounded. The quiet confidence of a man who knows what he’s doing and trusts his body to deliver.
From a survey of The Coach users who finished their first four weeks:
No forum advice, no bro-science. We build every program with clinical researchers and sex therapists, and everything traces back to peer-reviewed research.
Arousal control, erection quality, and stamina are physiology. They respond to consistent practice the same way your muscles respond to the gym.
Most men don’t know they have one. Clinical research shows pelvic floor training improves ejaculatory control and erectile function, with no medication and no side effects.
Research on female arousal shows orgasm is a multi-stage process, and most men skip the stages that matter most. Learn the pattern and everything changes.
Anxiety, distraction, and performance pressure are leading causes of sexual dysfunction in otherwise healthy men. The Coach trains the mental side with the same rigor as the physical.
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“Every guy has ‘a guy’ — car guy, plumbing guy, handyman guy. So why not a personal coach guy? They give you the skills and confidence you need behind closed doors.”
“After only five or six lessons, I was tuned in to making the experience more pleasurable for her — and the Coach made me a better partner and lover.”
“Fixing ED, premature issues, etc. isn’t solved overnight — it’s a program based on consistency and patience. It’s worked for me. It will work for you if you commit.”
“The Coach makes it simple and manageable to increase your longevity and stamina. Well worth it — I recommend it to any man who is struggling.”
We built The Coach for Him together with specialists in sexual medicine, urology, pelvic floor therapy, and relationship psychology.
Dr. Justin Houman
MD, UCLA-trained urologist and male reproductive specialist focusing on sexual health.
Dr. Amy Pearlman
Board-certified urologist specializing in male sexual wellness, performance, and hormonal health.
Gerard Greene
Specialist men's health physiotherapist and senior lecturer at Coventry University.
Dr. Susie Gronski
Licensed physical therapist, certified sexuality counselor, and founder of a men's pelvic health clinic.
Cameron Fraser
Australia's leading men's sex coach, specializing in male sexual wellness and performance.
Dr. Justin Lehmiller
PhD in social psychology and senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute.
Dr. Gary Shlifer
DO, board-certified internal medicine physician specializing in preventative care, nutrition, and anti-aging.
Ben Greenfield
13-time Ironman triathlete, bestselling author, and recognized expert in health, fitness, and performance.
Start with the one that matches your biggest goal. Want to last longer in bed? Last Longer. Want to understand her pleasure and become a better lover overall? Sex is a Skill. Focused on erection quality? Keep It Hard. Still not sure? Sex is a Skill covers the most ground and sets up everything else.
No. Every program is built to be done solo. The skills carry over into partnered sex, but you don’t need a partner to practice or progress.
Most daily sessions take 10 to 20 minutes. The programs are meant to fit into your routine, not replace it.
Yes. Most of our users have no diagnosis at all; they just want to be better in bed. The programs work whether you’re fixing a specific issue or raising your baseline.
Most men notice changes in the first two weeks: better body awareness, more control, more confidence. The deeper changes build over the full eight weeks.
Yes. What you do in The Coach stays in The Coach. We don’t share your data, and nobody can see your activity.
Two ways. Email support@the.coach and a real person on our team gets back to you — usually within a day. Or open the app, go to the Today tab, tap your profile, and hit Support. Both land with the same people.
