Step 01
A minute of questions
How long you’ve trained, what you’re noticing, what you want back. What comes out is a plan for your pelvic floor rather than a generic set of reps.
Men have a pelvic floor too, and almost nobody trains it. It sits at the base of the pelvis, it does real work every time you get hard or finish, and years of sitting down leave it weaker than it should be. Finding it takes a minute. Training it takes ten a day, and bed is where men tend to notice the difference first.
Get your pelvic floor planThe pelvic floor is a sheet of muscle that closes the bottom of the pelvis, the way a floor closes a room. It carries the bladder, the bowel and the prostate, and it works during erections and orgasm. Men have one. Clinically it’s the pelvic diaphragm, and pelvic floor exercises are simply what you do to make it stronger.
You’ll never see this one work, and that’s most of the reason it goes untrained. No mirror check, no soreness the next morning, no weight going up. It holds its position all day regardless — while you stand, walk and lift — so the only way to find out whether it’s doing that job well is to try to use it on purpose.
Nothing in an ordinary week asks much of this muscle. Pelvic floor muscles lose condition the way any unused muscle does. Quietly, because nothing about them shows.
There’s no home test that gives you a number. What you can check is simpler: find the muscle, hold it, let it go. If you can’t locate it, or the hold fades after a second or two, there’s something to train. If something feels wrong rather than weak — pain, or symptoms that started after surgery — that’s a pelvic health physiotherapist’s job, not an app’s.
Six in ten men report a significant improvement after six weeks of pelvic floor training. Getting there isn’t complicated, but training a muscle you can’t watch does mean the basics matter more — nothing gives you feedback except the muscle itself.
Two things are true at once. The movement is simple enough to describe in a sentence, and almost nobody keeps it up without something counting for them.
Those four are how any small muscle group gets trained. None of it is secret and you can start tonight without us. What the program carries is the stretch after that, where staying consistent stops depending on you remembering.
You can train without any of this. The app exists for the other part: remembering, counting, and the stretch in the middle where most men quietly stop.
Step 01
How long you’ve trained, what you’re noticing, what you want back. What comes out is a plan for your pelvic floor rather than a generic set of reps.
Step 02
Audio walks you through the holds and the rests, so you are not watching a clock. Reminders land at the same time daily, which is most of the difference between knowing this and doing it.
Step 03
Hold times and rest ratios move as you get stronger, and the harder squeeze work only arrives once the basics hold up.
That’s what the program carries for you: the schedule, the counting, and the nudge on the days you’d quietly skip.
A muscle you can’t see is still a muscle you can train.
It isn’t one muscle with one purpose. It’s a group doing four jobs at once, which is why weakness there turns up in places that look unrelated.
Bladder, bowel, prostate — the day job is holding them up, and it runs whether you think about it or not.
These are the muscles that drive blood flow to the area, which is why the research on pelvic floor training covers erection quality, not just endurance.
Those contractions you feel are this group working. That’s the physical link between how strong it is and how much say you get in the timing.
Half its job is releasing on cue. A floor stuck in permanent low-level tension behaves a lot like a weak one, and men who only ever squeeze end up exactly there.
Search for pelvic floor exercises for men and most of what comes back was written for women — pregnancy, postnatal recovery, bladder control. The muscle group has the same name in both bodies. It isn’t answering the same question.
None of that makes the women’s material wrong. It makes it a poor place for a man to start, and it’s most of the reason so many men have heard the phrase and never done anything with it.
Not the technique. Week three, when nothing has visibly changed yet and the reminder is the only thing still keeping it going.
From a survey of The Coach users who finished their first four weeks:
Unedited reviews from the App Store, Google Play and Trustpilot:
“Excellent training program I only wish I found it sooner. The science behind training specific pelvic floor muscles was impressive but not overrepresented.”
“The Kegel exercise program provides clear, step-by-step guidance that makes it easy to build a consistent routine for improving pelvic floor strength.”
“It has different articles help you understand the root cause of the problem and exercise that helps your pelvic floor build up and stamina.”
“I’ve been using The Coach: Men’s Health and Kegel for a while now, and I’m genuinely impressed with how well the app is designed and how practical it is.”
A minute of questions sets the plan. After that, the only decision left is whether you open the app on a Tuesday when nothing has changed yet.
Pelvic health is a physiotherapy speciality long before it’s an app feature. These are the people we built the program with.
Dr. Justin Houman
MD, UCLA-trained urologist and male reproductive specialist focusing on sexual health.
Dr. Susie Gronski
Licensed physical therapist, certified sexuality counselor, and founder of a men's pelvic health clinic.
Cameron Fraser
Australia's leading men's sex coach, specializing in male sexual wellness and performance.
Dr. Amy Pearlman
Board-certified urologist specializing in male sexual wellness, performance, and hormonal health.
Gerard Greene
Specialist men's health physiotherapist and senior lecturer at Coventry University.
Natalie Goldberg
Certified sex and family therapist dedicated to improving intimate relationships and personal well-being.
Dr. Paula Hall
Accredited sexual and relationship psychotherapist, registered with leading professional bodies in psychotherapy.
Dr. Justin Lehmiller
PhD in social psychology and senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute.
This is training, not treatment, and the difference matters more here than in most places. Pelvic floor physical therapy is a real clinical speciality, and some things belong to it rather than to an app.
Gerard Greene, one of the specialists we built the program with, works in exactly this speciality as a men’s health physiotherapist. Training and treatment are both real. They are just not the same appointment.
Nothing, in practice. The pelvic floor is the muscle group; a kegel is the name of the exercise that trains it, after the doctor who described it. People searching one term usually want the other. If what you want is the technique itself, rep by rep, that’s on our kegel exercises walkthrough.
Three checks, ten seconds each: can you find the muscle at all, can you hold it for a few seconds without your stomach or glutes joining in, and can you let it go completely on command. A miss on any of the three means there’s room to train.
Ten minutes a day for six weeks — that’s the program in the app, and six weeks is roughly the minimum for any muscle to genuinely change. Before that you’re mostly getting better at finding it, which is worth having on its own. After that, it keeps improving as long as you keep going.
Time is a more useful unit here than a rep count — ten minutes beats counting to fifty. Reps stop meaning much the moment form slips, and with nothing visible, form slips quietly. If you’re training without guidance, watch one thing instead of counting: whether the release at the end of each hold is actually complete.
Once you can reliably find the muscle, yes — nothing about it is visible, which is the practical appeal of the whole thing. Early on it pays to be stricter than that. Sitting recruits your abs and glutes for you, so it hides the exact mistake you’re trying to catch.
Control shows up before strength does. You find the muscle first time instead of hunting for it, you hold it without your stomach joining in, and you can let it go completely on command. Strength takes longer and reads differently — holds that don’t shake and don’t fade after two seconds.
Yes, and it’s a real thing rather than a footnote. Clenching all day out of habit builds tension and fatigue, and it can leave you with a hair-trigger reflex — the opposite of what you were training for. That’s why the release half of every rep matters, and why more is not better here.
Part of the picture, not the whole of it. These are the muscles that support blood flow into the groin, so training them is one lever among several — and not the one that matters most for every man. If erections are the main reason you’re here, our Keep It Hard program is built around that problem specifically.
That’s the physical half of it. A trained pelvic floor gives you something to use when arousal is high; knowing the moment to use it is a separate skill, built on breathing and reading your own arousal. Our Last Longer program puts both halves together over eight weeks.
Yes — if anything hurts, or the trouble started after surgery or an injury, that’s pelvic floor therapy territory, and it comes before an app. If nothing hurts and the muscle is simply untrained, training is the whole answer, and that’s what the program is for.
The technique is all here: where the muscle is, what a session looks like, what to avoid. The program adds the six weeks around it — the order, the counting and the reminders. The app is paid.
Yes. You can cancel anytime from your account settings — no questions asked, no retention calls.
A six-week pelvic floor program: ten guided minutes a day, holds and rests counted out for you, reminders, and progression that moves as you get stronger. The Coach’s other male-health programs come with it. The app is paid.
Neither. All it takes is your own body and somewhere to sit or lie down, which is why it fits a commute or a lunch break once you can find the muscle reliably.
Two ways. Email support@the.coach and a real person on our team gets back to you — usually within a day. Or open the app, go to the Today tab, tap your profile, and hit Support. Both land with the same people.
