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How to Overcome Performance Anxiety in Bed

Discover how to overcome performance anxiety in bed by building confidence through positive sexual experiences, guided imagery, and affirmations that reinforce your self-esteem and capabilities in intimate settings

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Erectile Dysfunction Program
What’s in there:
Custom 12-week strategy for ED management
Non-pills strategy that targets the root cause of ED, not just symptoms
Uncover the causes of your anxiety and defeat it
Enhance your muscular fitness
Acquire expertise and methods from top sex coaches
Find out how to secure your partner's support and cooperation
Find natural ED supplements
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Boost your confidence
Take your sexual wellness to an enhanced level
Achieve significant results within three months, without pills
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premature ejaculation
Premature Ejaculation Program
What’s in there:
An 8-week, full-spectrum program with four primary modules
Module “Physiology”: train your muscles
Module “Psychology”: mental training for extended control and stamina
Module "Skills & Techniques": enhance your sexual experiences
Module "Supplements": secure natural PE nutritional supports
Results:
Enhance your performance duration by 250% in fewer than 8 weeks
Achieve complete mastery over your arousal to endure as much as you desire
Train your pelvic floor muscles
Leave premature ejaculation behind for good
Erectile dysfunction
Erectile Dysfunction Program
What’s in there:
Custom 12-week strategy for ED management
Non-pills strategy that targets the root cause of ED, not just symptoms
Uncover the causes of your anxiety and defeat it
Enhance your muscular fitness
Acquire expertise and methods from top sex coaches
Find out how to secure your partner's support and cooperation
Find natural ED supplements
Results:
Stay firm
Boost your confidence
Take your sexual wellness to an enhanced level
Achieve significant results within three months, without pills
porn addiction
Porn Addiction Program
What’s in there:
Created by the internationally esteemed Dr. Paula Hall, this unique program focuses on sex and porn addiction, offering successful recovery for thousands of men
A series of audio sessions totaling 160 minutes to assist in understanding and addressing porn addiction
A research-supported, academically verified 6-step CHOICE Recovery Model designed for total control mastery
The objective here is not to tweak behaviors but to revolutionize your life
Results:
Discover and comprehend the brain processes making porn highly addictive
Understand how porn may impair bedroom arousal, causing erection issues and decreased libido
Pivotal Kick Start is a recovery-focused course, not just a sobriety class, assisting men in experiencing a fulfilling life without porn. With a sex-positive perspective, it guides you to identify and enjoy your unique definition of positive sexuality
total health optimization
Porn Addiction Program
What’s in there:
A lifetime health management system for naturally increasing men’s testosterone
Focus on the root causes of health issues. We cover the entire body: hormonal balance, sport, healthy sleep, nutrition
25 top-notch world experts specializing in male health fields
An organized daily schedule, from the moment of awakening to sleep onset
An array of 150+ workouts, 7 diet protocols, a tool for tracking fasting, various meditations, breathing strategies, and other offerings
Results:
Cut down body fat while bulking up muscle mass
Enhanced sleeping habits
Raised testosterone levels
Intensified sexual desire

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Results you can expect

Based on self-reported user surveys, over half of our users report noticeable improvements after following The Coach programs for just 4 consecutive weeks
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Control
58% improved their stamina and control during intercourse
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41% of users reported having sex more frequently each week
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39% experienced a boost in libido
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55% saw an increase in overall sexual satisfaction
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The Science That Makes The Coach Work

Every program is built on scientific research in men's sexual health and developed in collaboration with the leading medical professionals. You'll receive proven solutions designed to deliver lasting results
Last Longer Program
The Last Longer program is designed to address the issue of premature ejaculation. We define PE as any situation where ejaculation occurs sooner than desired, regardless of the specific timing, as it affects both satisfaction and overall well-being.

To tackle this problem, we’ve combined physical and psychological techniques for a comprehensive approach. Throughout the program, you’ll learn specific physical exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, giving you greater control during intercourse. At the same time, you’ll explore the psychological factors that influence arousal and orgasm.

These approaches will work together to give you better control and help you extend the moment.
Pelvic Floor Muscles
One of the most common causes of premature ejaculation is weak pelvic floor muscles. Strengthening these muscles through targeted exercies has been shown to be a highly effective treatment.

Clinical Evidence:
Increased IELT: Research has demonstrated that pelvic floor exercises can significantly extend intravaginal ejaculatory latency time (IELT) [Antonio L. Pastore et al., 2014]
Sustained results: Long-term studies reveal that many men who complete pelvic floor rehabilitation continue to maintain better ejaculatory control well after treatment [Antonio Luigi Pastore et al., 2024]
High success rate: In fact, 88% of men reported improvements in premature ejaculation after incorporating pelvic floor strengthening exercises into their routine [Pierre Lavoisier et al., 2014]
Psychological factors
Another key factor in controlling ejaculation is a lack of understanding of how arousal and ejaculation work together. Arousal techniques, combined with breathing and relaxation practices, can be highly effective. These methods help men gain better control over their sexual responses, allowing them to manage ejaculation more effectively [Kazım Doğan et al., 2023].

Partner involvement is also essential in managing and treating PE. Sexual issues affect both partners, often leading to frustration, reduced intimacy, and emotional stress. Addressing premature ejaculation with the support of a partner can lead to better outcomes and a stronger relationship overall [Stanley E. Althof, 2016].

Anxiety is another major factor contributing to premature ejaculation. It triggers the body’s fight-or-flight response, which reduces control over ejaculation. Worrying thoughts further distract from sexual activity, making it even harder to manage timing. Mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and mindfulness meditation, have proven effective in reducing anxiety and improving sexual performance [Ravi Philip Rajkumar, M.D. et al., 2014].

Based on our experience and the studies we've reviewed, noticeable improvements can typically be seen within the first 4 weeks. However, for long-term success, it’s essential to complete the entire program. Full commitment ensures lasting improvements and sustained benefits for your sexual health.
Keep It Hard Program
The Keep It Hard program is designed to address issues related to erectile dysfunction (ED)—a condition where the strength of an erection is insufficient for a satisfying sexual experience. ED can be caused by various factors such as poor blood flow, hormonal imbalances, stress, anxiety, or unhealthy habits.

In our program, you'll learn how to tackle all these aspects to achieve the best possible results. You'll be guided through physical exercises aimed at improving blood flow to the genitals. Additionally, you'll explore psychological practices to overcome any anxiety related to ED. Lastly, we'll provide lifestyle tips to help you prevent future issues and maintain your sexual health.
Weakened Pelvic Floor Muscles
Among the many contributing factors, weakened pelvic floor muscles are one of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction. Strengthening these muscles through targeted exercises, such as Kegels — taught in our program — can significantly improve erectile function by enhancing the muscles' ability to regulate blood flow and maintain penile rigidity.

Studies and Evidence:
Effectiveness of exercises: Research has shown significant improvements in erectile function in men who performed pelvic floor exercises. These benefits were even greater when combined with lifestyle changes [Grace Dorey et al., 2004]
Multiple confirmation: A comprehensive review of multiple studies confirmed that pelvic floor muscle training is an effective treatment for ED, showing notable improvement in erectile function compared to those who did not engage in these exercises [Christopher Myers et al., 2019]
High success rate: According to the study, 87% of men experienced improvements in erectile dysfunction after incorporating pelvic floor exercises into their routine [Pierre Lavoisier et al., 2014]
Psychological factors
Another key factor that can worsen erectile dysfunction is a lack of confidence, anxiety and stress. Stress activates the body's "fight-or-flight" response, diverting blood flow away from the genital area to muscles, the heart, and other vital organs, making it harder to achieve or maintain an erection [Mark S. Allen et al., 2023]. You’ll learn how to break negative thought patterns and overcome psychological barriers, helping you better support your physical responses.
Partner support is crucial in managing erectile dysfunction. Understanding and empathy from a partner can significantly reduce the psychological stress and anxiety that often accompany ED [Li Hongju et al., 2016], [J. Dean et al., 2007]. Open communication about ED can ease emotional strain on both partners, fostering trust and intimacy, and making it easier to tackle the issue together [William A. Fisher et al., 2019]. For this reason, our program includes lessons and exercises designed for both partners to ensure a positive, lasting effect.
Hormonal balance
Testosterone plays a crucial role in male development and sexual function. It’s essential for sexual arousal and the ability to maintain erections. Low testosterone levels can lead to decreased libido and disrupt the mechanisms that support erections [Jessica N. Schardein et al., 2022], [Jack Barkin, MD, 2011]. That’s why our program provides guidance on key lifestyle changes to help maintain healthy testosterone levels naturally.
The first noticeable effects typically appear after about 4 weeks of regular practice. However, to achieve and maintain the full benefits, it’s important to complete the entire program.
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OssiOboy
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While I mainly use this app for the kegel exercises, it offers many other benefits, sush as dietary guidance, workout plans, and more. All very easy to use and navigate. I would definitly recommend everyone to use it, even if it is just for one of the functions.
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Warren Kyle
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Honestly was a little skeptical at first. I’ve been doing the exercises daily and have noticed a huge change. They don’t take long at all and I am lasting quite a bit longer after only 3 weeks!
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mik skalisky
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Very easy to follow workouts, can accomplish in minutes! SEEING RESULTS IN 3 WEEKS, can't wait for future results
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Rudy vdv
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Was skeptical with these products on line touting efficiency etc etc .. but this is the real deal !!!! Great service great products … am so pleased and happy with this . Will definitely continue with these products and service. No regrets at all. 5 stars and more
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CC Reviewing
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The Coach does a great job of breaking down the process into step by step processes that are easy to follow and keep up with. It also helps you understand what is going and what to do to improve and understand the issue.
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Tristian Mitchell
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Learning and practicing from The Coach app has been a game changer already. I'm only a few weeks in and I'm already feeling really good about my progress and the fact that I'm doing something about "it". Highly recommend!
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joffe7
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I have been using the coach program everyday for the last 3 weeks. So far the progress has been very noticeable and also traceable. The pace and progression of the exercises have been really enjoyable and allows for continued motivation.
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Jean Claude Ishimwe
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The best app on the market when it comes to making you the man you are destined to be. 100% recommend
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EXPERTS & ADVISORS

Leading male health specialists collaborate to ensure men flourish. Including sex therapists, urologists, nutritionists, endocrinologists: your dedicated health advisory group
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Dr. Justin Houman, advisor
MD, urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, UCLA whose practice is focused on men's health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction
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Dr. Joshua Roland, advisor
MD, FAASM, Diplomate of Sleep Medicine, Clinical Instructor, David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA Division of Pulmonary, Critical Care, and Sleep Medicine
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Dr. Gary Shlifer, advisor
DO, a board-certified internal medicine physician specializing in preventative care, nutrition/metabolism, and anti-aging medicine, UCLA
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Dr. Paula Hall
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UKCP Accredited Sexual & Relationship Psychotherapist
D.Psych.PW, Registered MBACP (Accred), UKCP Reg, AccCOSRT(Snr), ATSAC
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Gerard Greene
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Specialist Men's Health Physiotherapist, senior lecturer at Coventry University
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Dr. Susie Gronski
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Dr. Susie Gronski is a Licensed Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner, AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor and Educator, and owner of a multidisciplinary men’s pelvic health clinic
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Cameron Fraser
Australia's Leading Men's Sex Coach
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13 time Ironman triathlete, NY bestselling author, voted by the NSCA as America's top Personal Trainer and by Greatist as one of the top 100 Most Influential People In Health And Fitness
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Certified Sex Therapist, Family Therapist
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Caleb Jude Packham
Sattva Yoga Teacher & Wellness Warrior Founder
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Dr. Amy Pearlman
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Board-certified urologist specializing in male sexual and hormonal health
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Rick Brennan
Certified personal trainer, strength and condition coach, sports nutritionist, Pro Athlete-WFFPRO

FAQ

Got questions? We've got answers. Dive into our FAQ section to find detailed responses to the most common queries about our men's health app and services
What is The Coach?
The Coach stands out as your personal health guide, focusing intensely on male-specific health challenges, including premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Our app is designed to confront these issues head-on with customized programs that delve into the underlying causes, offering practical, all-natural strategies for improvement. Beyond these targeted solutions, The Coach also features a comprehensive overall health optimization program that encompasses fitness, muscle building, and healthy sleep routines, ensuring a holistic approach to your wellness.
The Coach offers insightful content on identifying triggers and conquering anxiety, in addition to performance-boosting exercises, equipping you with vital tools for sexual health and confidence. Through our expert-validated approach, men can look forward to significant health and sexual performance enhancements, paving the way for a supportive framework for personal evolution and relationship improvement.
What's included in The Coach subscription?
When you choose The Coach, you're opting for a journey that encompasses total health enhancement and life quality upliftment. Our subscription is built around four detailed programs, all designed by health experts at the forefront of their fields. These programs, included in your plan, extend beyond daily checklists, offering a toolkit complete with exercises, nutritional plans, meditation techniques, therapeutic practices, and plenty more.
But the journey doesn't end there. As a subscriber, you gain access to hundreds of additional educational materials designed to enrich every aspect of your life. From lessons that teach and exercises that challenge to insights that inspire, every resource is aimed at fostering your growth and enhancing your well-being. It's a holistic approach that combines knowledge with action, ensuring you're supported every step of the way as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself.
Is The Coach right for me?
If you're experiencing issues related to men's health, such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, bedroom confidence loss, psychological blocks to fulfilling sex, or porn dependence, The Coach could be the solution you're seeking. Designed to cater to a comprehensive range of male health problems, it offers bespoke guidance and scientifically validated approaches to help you overcome these difficulties.
If enhancing your sexual wellness, rebuilding confidence, and confronting psychological obstacles is your goal, The Coach stands ready to assist. Our strategy is all-encompassing, embracing, and tailored to aid men throughout their quest for greater health and contentment.
Does The Coach use scientifically proven methods?
Absolutely. The methodologies incorporated into The Coach app are grounded in scientific research, demonstrating their effectiveness in managing and improving various aspects of men's health. Studies have shown that targeted pelvic floor exercises, which are part of our core exercise programs, can significantly help strengthen the muscles involved in sexual performance and control [1][2].
Moreover, the integration of psychological counseling and behavioral techniques addresses the mental and emotional aspects of sexual health. Research indicates that combining physical and psychological interventions provides a comprehensive approach that is more effective in treating sexual health issues compared to single-method treatments [3][4].
Our app also includes lifestyle and dietary advice based on the latest clinical research, contributing to overall sexual health and well-being. Studies have linked improvements in sexual health with certain dietary patterns and regular physical activity, supporting the holistic health strategies we promote within the app [5][6].
How quickly can I expect results from using The Coach?
The pathway to betterment via The Coach is individualized, shaped by the nature and depth of your challenges, and their psychological or physical roots. While immediate changes are not typical, a vast number of users have mentioned an increase in confidence and positive shifts within weeks.
Dedication to the daily action plans and recommended exercises is essential. By faithfully following the custom recommendations from The Coach, significant improvements in personal and relational experiences are expected within weeks. Our integrated method seeks not only to better sexual capabilities and tackle prevalent men's health issues but also to enhance your complete mental and physical health.
Does The Coach really help users?
Yes, The Coach app has been shown to be effective according to user surveys. Internal data from self-reported user surveys show significant improvements after following a program on The Coach for just four consecutive weeks. More extended use only enhances these positive outcomes.
41% of users reported an increase in the number of times per week they had sex
58% reported an increase in the duration of intercourse
39% reported a rise in their libido levels
55% reported an increase in their overall sex life satisfaction
These results highlight the remarkable progress users can achieve in just a short time, with continued use leading to even greater improvements in sexual health and overall well-being.
Can The Coach be a good fit for my partner's needs?
Applause to you for your proactive and supportive approach to your partner's health difficulties. The Coach provides specialized assistance for men facing a variety of problems, including those related to sexual wellness, originating from psychological or physical sources. It’s laudable that you're collectively seeking solutions, especially when the concept of psychological influences on men's health is a fresh idea for several people.
The thought of recommending The Coach to your partner is a testament to your genuine concern and support for their quest for better health. We present a variety of resources and bespoke programs, focusing on concerns like sexual performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction, delivered discreetly and with scientific validation.
With The Coach, your partner can access valuable insights, tools, and techniques to tackle their challenges, possibly contributing to improved well-being and a more rewarding relationship for you and your partner.

Techniques to Overcome Performance Anxiety in Bed

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